Roadmap of What's in the Free Course
Welcome to the Table of Contents for the free version of the Truths of Attraction course. Here's what we're going to cover......
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The Free Course
- 4 min
The Challenge and Opportunity in Today's Awful Dating World
No, it’s not in your head… Dating has never been harder for guys. And that’s not me talking, it’s the data. According to sociologists at...
- 3 min
What's in the Course and How You Should Approach It
This course is designed to walk guys through the entire process of attracting women, dating them, then having a meaningful relationship....
- 9 min
You've Been Lied to By Just About Everyone
A quick disclaimer as we begin… My personal experiences with women have shaped my impression of “what works.” That’ll be the same for any...
- 6 min
The Best Way to Attract Women Without Making Any Effort to Attract them
There’s a second piece of misinformation we need to address. It’s not so much that you’ve been fed falsehoods like we just covered. This...
- 5 min
Start Living an Interesting Life and Watch Women Flock to You
I hope now you realize why finding and pursuing your passion is so important. One, it’s a huge part of achieving personal fulfillment....
- 5 min
The Qualities Women Can't Help but Be Attracted To
“What are women attracted to?” (Insert your own joke here about the futility of grappling with this question.) But here’s a good starting...
- 5 min
Three "Must Have" Traits: "Confidence, Strength, and Fun"
In our definition of what women are attracted to, I referenced, “confidence,” “strength,” and “fun.” Let’s cover each one in a bit more...
- 6 min
Looks - The Element of Attraction You Can't Fully Control
Let’s return to our definition of what women find attractive. A feminine woman is attracted to a masculine man who meets her personal,...
- 3 min
How to Improve Your Looks Right Now
As referenced a moment ago, yes, looks are important to women. While you can’t change the big stuff – your height, bone structure, facial...
- 7 min
How to Conquer Approach Anxiety
Do you get nervous at the thought of approaching and striking up a conversation with a good-looking woman? Congrats, you’re like...
- 3 min
How to Build Genuine, Rock-Solid Confidence
We just talked about approach anxiety, and the Action Steps/ Assignment focused on taking action through micro-stepping. In this section,...
- 8 min
Everything You Need to Know About Approaching Women
Alright, we’re finally ready to discuss approaching women. This is a big topic, so here’s how we’re going to break it down… The action...
- 8 min
Approaching Women - The "No Risk" Method
We’re going to break down approaching women into six categories and an appendix: "No Risk" Approach Indirect Approach The “The Friendly...
- 4 min
Approaching Women - The Indirect Method
I’m moving through these approach styles going from “least anxiety-inducing” to “most anxiety-inducing.” That puts the Indirect method up...
- 1 min
Approaching Women - The "Friendly Guy" Method
I’m going to reserve this one for the full course. But in general, the “Friendly Guy” method is a form of a direct approach. The...
- 1 min
Approaching Women - The Direct Method with a Compliment
I’m also going to reserve this one for the full course. But in general, what I’m referencing as “Direct with a Compliment” is an approach...
- 3 min
Approaching Women - The "Spontaneous" Approach
Of all the different approach styles, the best one – taking into account all the pros and cons of each – is the “Spontaneous” Approach....
- 2 min
Approaching Women - Approaching Groups
During the daytime, it’s not at all unusual to see a good-looking woman out by herself. At night in the bars, not so much. So, how do you...
- 6 min
Appendix: When Compliments Don't Work, Plus When to Use the Different Approach Styles
I don’t want to overcomplicate things, but let’s end this discussion of approaching by digging a bit deeper into complimenting a woman....
- 1 min
A Final Tip for Perspective As You Start Approaching Women
You’re going to hear “no thanks” plenty of times. So, don’t worry when that happens. But here’s a perspective that often helps in the...
- 3 min
Okay, I Just Approached Her - What Now?
You just approached her and she's charmed... Congrats! Unfortunately, as I mentioned earlier, this part is where the real challenge...
- 5 min
How Guys Mess Up in Stage One of the Conversation
Okay, so you’re suddenly in a conversation with her – what now? You don’t have any clue what to say. Well, let’s begin with what the...
- 10 min
How You'll Avoid the Stage One "Average Guy" Mistakes
Here’s the big-picture. We’ll dive into the details below. 1. While the average guy is too “into her” from the beginning, you’re...
- 5 min
How to Build Attraction and Rapport in Stage Two
Okay, you approached this woman and began a fun conversation. You just cruised through Stage One and things are going well. What is Stage...
- 4 min
How to Escalate the Conversation (Give it a Sexual Undercurrent)
As noted earlier, this does not mean “sleezy.” It’s just a little spiciness. A sexual charge. That charge could be understated and...
- 2 min
What Happens at the End of Stage Two
If things are progressing well, then by the end of Stage Two, her attraction for you is going to be increasing. You’ll likely see signs...
- 7 min
Getting Her to Chase You in Stage Three
Okay, you approached this woman and began a fun conversation. In Stage One, you flirted, teased, didn’t ask boring questions, kept the...
- 5 min
How Does the Conversation Blueprint Change for a Daytime Approach?
Let’s talk about the conversation you’ll have following a daytime approach now. It’s basically going to be the same blueprint as a...
- 8 min
Additional Tips for a Good First Conversation
In a moment, we’ll get to how to end this first conversation (for example, getting her number or kissing her). But first, let’s fill in a...
- 13 min
The Right Way to Get Her Number, Kiss Her, and/or Set Up a Date
You approached her… made her feel comfortable… charmed her… teased her… created attraction… established a fun, crackling sexual...
- 6 min
How Women Are Wired - and What it Means for How You Respond
So, last night you went out, approached an attractive woman, and got her number. What now? Do you text her the next day? Or call her?...
- 5 min
What Will Make a Woman Pursue You
The quick answer? Uncertainty. It’s when she’s uncertain how a guy feels about her. Here’s the longer version… A woman reaches out to a...
- 5 min
Why Bad Boys Win Over Nice Guys
Let’s take a minute to talk about “bad boys” versus “nice guys” since it ties in here. Many guys have a misconception about the “bad...
- 7 min
When to Reach Out to Set Up the Date
Let’s say you met someone last night, had a great time, and walked away with her number. When do you reach out? You’ve probably heard...
- 10 min
Guidelines for Asking Her Out
A few things to keep in mind as you start the phone conversation with the goal of asking her out... First, the first important issue is:...
- 3 min
Don't Mess Up First Date Logistics
In a few hours, you’re meeting her for your first official date. The initial question is “what do you have planned?” A few things to keep...
- 3 min
The Right "First Date" Mindset
You’re leaving your place to go meet her at the first spot. What are you thinking? Let’s actually ask the reverse question – what should...
- 7 min
First Date "Do's" That Lead to Success
Let’s go over a handful of important things to make sure you do on your first date. First Date Body Language We’ve talked about body...
- 2 min
First Date "Don'ts" that Blow You Up
I’m going to save most of this section for the paid version of the course. But let’s cover one huge topic. Don’t Pass Up an Opportunity...
- 8 min
Yes, Go for the Kiss - Here's Why
There are two main schools of thought on going for a kiss on your first date (or the initial conversation): 1) Go for the kiss at the...
- 4 min
What's Your Post-Kiss Plan?
You just read the signs, went for it, and enjoyed a nice kiss with her. If the evening has gone great, and both of you don’t want it to...
- 5 min
Is She Flaking Out on the Date? Do This
Let’s go over a couple situations you’ll encounter out in the dating market pertaining to flaky women. First Date Problem #1 – She...
- 2 min
After Date 1 - What Now?
Let’s say last night was your first date. It went well and ended with a kiss. You want to ask her out again. What’s the protocol? Well,...
- 3 min
How Long Do You Wait to Reach Out?
Let's talk about how long to wait before you ask her out again. There's a general timing spectrum involved. Contacting her within a day...
- 2 min
How Quickly Do You Respond After She Texts/Calls?
In this period after your first date, as well as through the early stages of dating in general, coming across as overly interested can be...
- 4 min
What if She Turns Down Your 2nd Date Invite?
You thought you had a great date. You might have even kissed her, or she talked about what you might do on your second date. Four days...
- 7 min
What is the Minefield? And Why Is It So Dangerous?
Knowing how to approach women and spark initial interest is critically important. After all, you have to be able to meet women before...
- 3 min
Minefield Guideline 1: Wait Until She Reaches Out to You
In a previous lesson, we talked about waiting between three and six days from your first date before asking her out again. Hopefully, the...
- 5 min
Minefield Guideline 2: Stay Off Your Phone in Between Dates
People fall in love in person, not over text or phone calls. So, after you’ve set up your airtight date, get off your phone. The text...
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