You’re going to hear “no thanks” plenty of times.
So, don’t worry when that happens.
But here’s a perspective that often helps in the learning process…
She’s not rejecting you. She’s rejecting something about your approach.
The truth is she doesn’t know you. She doesn’t know all your strengths, skills, and awesome qualities.
All she knows is what you’ve presented to her in a matter of seconds.
So, if it didn’t go well, she’s not even capable of rejecting you; instead, she’s saying “no” to something you did, or to something you made her feel as part of your approach.
And that’s what you can change with practice and experience.
So, as you’re beginning this process of improvement with women, disconnect “you” from your “results.” She’s not saying “no” to the essence of who you are - or hell, she’s not even saying “no” to your looks necessarily.
(You might look just like her ex-boyfriend who broke her heart.)
She’s just saying “no” to something you did that’s correctible. So, keep practicing – it will get better.
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